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Why YOU are a Loser (And How to Fix it)

August 21st, 2023

Back in January of this year, I looked myself in the mirror and said "You are a loser" and from that day forward, I decided to stop being loser, simple as that. Well it is more complicated than you think, Rome wasn't built in a day, there are still some days where I am a loser and I lay in bed too much and scroll on Instagram, or I stay up too late watching pointless youtube videos that don't have any benefit to my life.

I am not perfect, no one is, but I strive everyday to get better as a person, and that's all I can do. I want to be the man I want to be and the man I know I CAN be but I am chasing that ghost. The ghost being that untapped potential that I know I have, but have yet unlocked.

Enough about me for now, here is why you are a loser. You are a loser, because you don't do anything with your life, you live on "autopilot", doing the same shit everyday. Soon you will realize that you hate who you are, and you will want to change. So you start going to the gym everyday, you start running, or you start pursuing something like trying to make money online.

Then after about a week you give up because you realize that nothing worth accomplishing is easy. So you go back to scrolling on Tik Tok all day, vaping, partying, and being a complete bum. You give up at the first sight of adversity because you didn't get the 6 pack abs on your first day at the gym, you didn't make a million on crypto your first week trading, or you couldn't run farther than a half of mile because you are a fat loser, so you go back to the Doritos, Mountain Dew, and the Call of Duty (Comfort Zone). You complain to your friends that your life sucks and you will never happy and day after day goes by and it never gets better.

After 40 years at your desk job selling something you don't care about, working for someone who hates your guts, you retire at the ripe old age of 65 and you expect everything to get better but it doesn't, your life still sucks, your wife hates you, and your kids don't respect you. You live out the rest of your days full of regret because you never challenged yourself, you never chased your dreams, you never ever got out of your comfort zone. You lay on your death bed wondering what went wrong. Well YOU...GAVE...UP!!!!

WAKE UP!!!!!!!

I don't care how old you are, if you are reading this and you hate your life, stop right now, get a piece of paper, and write down where you are in life, what you hate about your life, and what you want to change. Be completely harsh and blunt with yourself because if you don't start facing reality and telling yourself the hard truth, you will die on your deathbed with so many damn regrets. If you think changing your life is hard to do, imagine the bill from regret that you get as you draw your final breaths, all the thoughts of what you could have done and what you could have been.

Don't let your past define you, you define your future, and the way you start defining your future is by taking massive action NOW, it won't be easy, it is not supposed to be easy. If getting big muscles and a lot of money was easy then everyone would be jacked and rich. Being jacked and rich is earned and respected, that is why is hard to achieve.

My good friend if you are reading this, don't let another day pass by without trying to change for the better.

Fall in love with the journey and the process

The goals and achievements will just be a byproduct of your love for self-improvement

Now I know reading this got you hyped up and motivated to go run a 5k, go to the gym, or start an online business but that motivation will fade soon after you are done reading this, so go ACT NOW and start taking MASSIVE ACTION TODAY AND DON'T LOOK BACK!!!!



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